Your Life Means Something

I have heard it many times. Someone loses a spouse or a partner and they say a piece of them died too and, I know it may feel like that. I have helped people with losses of all types and I can assure you this. You are still whole. You are still complete. You are meant to live on even if you don’t feel like you want to.

Of course, if the loss is another person, you will always miss them but, I share this thought with you. You were complete before you met and, although the loss may be intense, you are still whole on your own. You just may not believe you are.

What you are actually feeling is “unresolved grief”. It can happen in any number of situations but the loss of a partner or spouse is one of the most difficult.

Most people fear if they remove the pain, they remove the memory and that is absolutely not true. You will never forget your loved one if you stop hurting. One of the biggest misconceptions is people think if they feel happy again, they are somehow dishonouring the memory of the person. That is so far from the truth and not what they would want for you.

If you feel it’s time for a little help to get over the hurdle, check out our Turn the Page Program. You’ll be glad you did.